Friday, June 12, 2009

Be the Body

Yesterday, when I went to pick up the girls at dance practice, I was reacquainted with a homeschooling mother with whom I'd had some previous interaction. As we caught up, we discussed curriculum, summer schedules, year round school...the typical homeschooling things. We parted ways as the kids finished their practice, but as we walked out to the car, I was compelled to speak to her again. In this second conversation, I learned that in the past several months, her husband had lost his job, and her brother had died. Wow!

Here I'd chit-chatted with this woman for about 15 minutes, and these deeper issues never surfaced, it appeared that her life was perfect. But in our second conversation, the floodgate was opened, and she was able to share how she was really doing. I was so thankful that God had led me to initiate that second conversation, which enabled me to pray over her, right there in the parking lot. That simple act of obedience on my part resulted in a lifted burden on hers. I was able to encourage her, and now I know to continue to pray for her and her family. I also know that she needs a friend.

As she thanked me for taking the time to talk with and pray for her, we started talking about what it means to be a part of the body of Christ. Far too often, I am afraid that we settle for that initial chit-chat, that surface level conversation, and never get to the deeper issues which are plaguing us. As a result, we are not able to encourage one another as we should, and we don't know how to pray as we ought. We are all broken and wounded, yet we hide our gaping wounds with niceties and pleasantries. We're too busy, or too afraid to really care.

We talk about the weather, while the body of Christ suffers.

It should not be this way!!!

The New Testament is full of instruction on how we as the body of Christ are to behave toward one another:
  • be devoted to one another in brotherly love (Rom. 12:10)
  • give preference to one another (Rom. 12:10)
  • love one another (Rom 13:8)
  • pursue the things which make for peace and the building up of one another (Rom. 14:19)
  • accept one another (Rom. 15:7)
  • through love, serve one another (Gal. 5:13)
  • bear one another's burdens (Gal. 6:2)
  • be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another (Eph. 4:32)
  • with humility of mind, regard one another as better than yourselves (Phil. 2:3)
  • bearing with one another (Col. 3:13)
  • with all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, (Col. 3:16)
  • comfort one another (I Thess. 4:18)
  • encourage one another and build up one another (I Thess. 5:11)
  • live in peace with one another (I Thess. 5:13)
  • always seek after what is good for one another (I Thess. 5:15)
  • encourage one another day after day (Hebrews 3:13)
  • stimulate one another to love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24)
  • confess your sins to one another (James 5:16)
  • pray for one another (James 5:16)
  • fervently love one another from the heart (I Peter 1:22)
  • be hospitable to one another (I Peter 4:9)
  • clothe yourselves with humility toward one another (I Peter 5:5)
  • love one another (I John 3:11, 23, 4:7, 11, 12; II John 1:5)
I could list many more verses, but it is of no use if we aren't willing to allow them to penetrate our hearts, and enable them to change us and compel us to actually obey them. Love, encourage, build up, pray, comfort, serve...all of these things are possible through the power of the Holy Spirit! And each one of us is capable of doing each one of these through the Spirit.

If you were to read each one of these in its context, you would not find caveats. They do not read, "if you are comfortable doing so, pray for one another." NO!! We are simply commanded to pray. I Peter 4:9 does not say, "If you have the gift of hospitality, and a beautiful house that could be featured in Better Homes & Gardens, then be hospitable." NO!!! We are all commanded to be hospitable without complaint.

It's time to stop making excuses. I couldn't have anyone over, my house is too small. I don't feel comfortable praying out loud; I'd be too embarrassed to ask if I could pray for them. I'm too busy!

It's time to stop expecting others to do what you've been instructed to do. She's so much better at that. He's the pastor, that's his job. They've been to bible college; they're much more qualified than I. I'm sure they have many friends who they can talk to and pray with.

These "one another" passages are not directed to specific, uniquely qualified, individuals, who've graduated from seminary or bible college, but to every member of the body of Christ. Every believer needs to be doing these things for the building up and edification of the body! Every. believer.

When every believer does his part, the church can accomplish the wonderful purpose God intends for it. When these "one another" instructions are neglected, the body suffers, its growth is stunted, and we miss out on the blessing God intended the body of Christ to be.

Are you longing for something more?
Do you want something deeper?
Are you dissatisfied with the current state of the body?

Begin to apply these one another passages through the power of the Holy Spirit, and you will slowly and surely begin to experience the blessed riches of life in the body of Christ. I guarantee it. There is no better feeling than to walk away and know that you did what God wanted you to do, to know that you blessed and encouraged another person. Obedience yields peace and joy. Start yourself, and do not lose heart in doing good, for in due time you will reap if you do not not grow weary. That's God's promise; you can cling to it!

I Peter 4:10 says, "As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God."

Are you being a good steward of the manifold grace of God?
Do you really want to stand before Him and say you weren't?

Surrender yourself to Christ, yield yourself to the power of the Holy Spirit, and begin to walk in Him. You'll be amazed at the amazing things HE can accomplish through you, if you are willing to allow Him to do them.

It's time to be the Body.

Grace and Peace,
Angel

17 comments:

seasonsmom said...

Angel, AMEN! I had your blog open from reading it last nite and this am I saw your fresh post! First to comment on such a good post! Yes, yes, yes!

JustAnotherBlogger said...

Time to stop making excuses indeed! "...let us lay aside every encumbrance..."

I'm so blessed to have you as my teammate and partner.

Stacy said...

Great post, Angel!

So true how we keep to the "safe", surfacey things and forego the deeper, more important issues.

Thank you for the reminder to show love and compassion!

Linda L. said...

AMEN! Speak the truth Angel!

I am amazed at how surface level Christians have become. I think there are a variety of reasons why no one yearns for deeper relationships, busyness and fear of being judged being at the top of the list.

Sadly I've been fighting the urge to give in to a trend that I've started to see. People I know don't even say "hi" to each other in passing.

Great post, I'm coming back to mark down the verses in my journal.

Blessings,
Linda

Dana said...

Amen, and Amen.

Blessings--
Dana

Melissa said...

Way, way good!

Amy said...

Thank you, Angel! I needed that!

Happyhome said...

Imagine how different the world would look if all Christians really got the message here and started living out this truth.

mylittleducks5 said...

I love your meaty posts!! Thanks for the challenge and the encouragement :) I think I will post some of these verses on our wall.
:>Michelle

Tiffani said...

This was so good Angel! I tried to read it yesterday and even recommended it to a friend, but didn't have a chance to read the whole thing myself till just now (and even yet was interrupted). I was reminded to come back to it when I picked up the book Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands (which I have had for a while but haven't read yet) and came across a similar type of story of not really knowing others as well as we think we do.

chickadee@afamiliarpath said...

wonderful post!

Halfmoon Girl said...

That was an awesome post, Angel. It is so true. So many times it is the opposite- everyone pretends they have it all together. I looked around my church this morning and saw someone whose husband just broke her back, someone who just miscarriage at 3 mos, someone whose husband has cancer, etc, etc, etc. I was nursing my own heartache this morning as well. It is so important to uphold others in prayer and to be real with each other about our struggles. Thank you.

S'more of my Thoughts said...

Whoo hoo!!!! Right on, my friend! Oh, how I loathe & despise small talk!!! I was high-5-ing you and yelling "Preach it, Sister Angel!" ... and ... then ... got ... to the ... "afraid to pray out loud" part. Ahem. That would be me! Must you always be SO right about EVERYTHING?!? ;-)

I suppose I'll need to work on that!

But I DO SOOOO VERY MUCH agree with everything else you said! :-D

xoxo

Eowyn said...

I'll come back when I can digest this a bit better than I can right now.

You're awesome. Nuf said.

Emily said...

Oh man I loved this post. Yep...what's holding us back?

I loved your bullet list of WHY we don't act out in faith and obedience. It's so true.

I have a fear of man issue sometimes and that's one of my biggest stumbling blocks. But really, truly...WHO would be offended if you sincerely asked if you could pray with someone?

Sarah said...

This was excellent! Especially the list of verses that spell out for us how we are to live and love.

Cindy-Still His Girl said...

Beautiful, my friend. I find myself hanging back so much these days, not trying as much. YOU know why. Sometimes people make me insane, but I WANT to be the one the scriptures you listed described.